felecia187 so you want to keep the weight off well first you have to tell people why you are over weight to begin with did something happen to you when you were young there is a reason people get fat more so for women then men , be honest seek help to deal with your past so your past dose not run your life , learn to deal with what happened and move on , do not let the past run your life . when you start to deal with your emotions you will learn to enjoy a healthy life style .enjoy .